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Program7 days10–15 min per dayOccupationalDiscipline

The boundaries week

Seven days on boundaries, from work to the people you care about. You set a concrete rule for the workday, practice a friendly no and a hard message without blame, learn to leave on time without an excuse, find the line between supporting and taking over, and change steps in the old dance with your parents.

How it works

One exercise, session or article per day for 7 days. You go at your own pace — the app remembers where you are, and you can pause and restart whenever you want.

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Day by day

  1. 1
    Exercise
    Setting boundaries
    See where work eats time that was yours, set a concrete rule — like no emails after six — and hold it when it is tested.
    15 min
  2. 2
    Exercise
    Say it without accusing
    Turn something hard you need to say from accusation into an I-message — and decide when you will say it.
    10 min
  3. 3
    Exercise
    Say no with respect
    See what makes no hard, practice a short and friendly no without an apology, and have the wording ready before you need it.
    10 min
  4. 4
    Exercise
    The kind boundary
    Saying no, leaving on time or putting the phone away in the evening, without being harsh with yourself or apologizing for being human.
    12 min
  5. 5
    Exercise
    Caring without going under
    When someone you love is struggling, the line between helping and disappearing into it is razor-thin. Find it.
    12 min
  6. 6
    Exercise
    Helping without taking over
    Someone you care about is struggling. The art is to support them in a way that grows their own strength, not yours.
    10 min
  7. 7
    Exercise
    Adult to adult with your parents
    Ten minutes with family and you're fifteen again. The dance has been practiced for decades, but it only takes ONE person changing their step.
    12 min

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