The ObservatoryThe small thing that's enough
Four scenarios about giving when you yourself feel empty, and a promise to one small action this week
How it works
- When your own self feels emptyChoose
- This week's actionWriteChoose
When life feels meaningless, the instinct is often to stare harder at oneself: think, analyze, wait for clarity. Research on self-transcendence points the other way. Direct your gaze outward, toward someone who actually …
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Why does it work?
Helping others often goes together with better wellbeing of one's own, a recurring finding in research on prosocial behavior and wellbeing (Post, International Journal of Behavioral Medicine, 2005; Aknin et al., cross-cultural studies on prosocial giving). The link is largely correlational and the effects moderate, but the direction is stable.
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