The ObservatoryMemory is not a recording
We trust our memories like video evidence. Research shows otherwise, and that has practical consequences for how you use yours.
It feels as if memory records: the event is there, and you press play. But decades of memory research have shown that the metaphor is fundamentally wrong. Memory doesn't play back; it RECREATES. Every time you remember something, the memory is assembled anew from fragments, expectations and everything you've learned since. And every time you put it back, it has changed a little.
How malleable it is surprised even the researchers. In famous experiments, a single carefully chosen word in a question, how fast were the cars going when they SMASHED into each other?, was enough to make witnesses remember broken glass that was never there. With a little help from instructions and repetition, participants have had whole childhood memories implanted: that they got lost in a shopping mall, or went up in a hot-air balloon. These were vivid, detailed, emotional memories of things that never happened. And the most unsettling finding: how CERTAIN you feel about a memory says surprisingly little about how accurate it is.
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Why does it work?
The reconstructive nature of memory, the effect of leading questions and implanted memories are the research field of Loftus (Loftus & Palmer 1974; Loftus 1995 and later); that subjective certainty is a weak indicator of accuracy is well replicated. Mood-congruent memory is documented (Bower). The warning against suggestive memory-digging is shared by professional guidelines.
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